Happy 10th Anniversary!

10 years.

These have been the best 10 years of my life.

You have brought me more joy and more growth than I could have imagined.

More than the joy and growth, though, I’m excited about what is ahead. This verse keeps popping into my mind:

But one thing I do:forgetting what lies behind and straining forward to what lies ahead, 14 I press on toward the goal for the prize of the upward call of God in Christ Jesus.

I know that is Paul talking about his walk with God and his calling, but for me, I keep thinking about us.

I don’t want to forget what lies behind, but I do want to use it to focus on pressing toward the goals and dreams we have as a couple and as a family.

The goals and dreams aren’t complicated:

  • I want us to have fun.
  • I want us to encourage each other.
  • I want us to take chances and avoid regrets.
  • I want us to do the things we want to do simply because we want to.
  • I want us to love each other deeply and passionately.
  • I want us to lead our kids well and help lead them into being awesome adults.
  • I want to be financially free and physically healthy.
  • I want to be a family that loves Jesus well and serves others selflessly.

We can forget what lies behind while still using it to drive us toward our goals as a couple and a family.

So I commit this to you as we celebrate our 10th year:

  • God will be my priority (feel free to remind me as needed).
  • My health – physically, spiritually, emotionally, and mentally – will come in a close second because without these things, I’m of no use to you or anybody else.
  • You. You are my most treasured relationship and my most treasured stewardship. You are my heart. You are a gift. And you I commit to keeping safe as I also commit to challenging you and doing my best to bring out the goodness that lives inside of you.
  • Our Children. Maggie, Jake, and Sam are also my heart. May I be the Dad to them that lifts them up and encourages them.
  • All the other stuff: You can help me figure this out.

You are lovely. You are beautiful. You are precious.

Please never forget that, even if I fail at times to treat you as such.

Never forget it.

I love you and I’m thankful for you.

Happy Anniversary  (and thank you for being so good to me)!


**By the way, you’ll notice posts being numbered. I couldn’t quite keep to a daily schedule, but I hope you’ll enjoy some of the memories in this little tribute blog. 🙂

5/10/15 – Day 469: Happy Mother’s Day!

I won’t make excuses, but it does appear that I didn’t do a very good job at planning the day. I went overboard on the ‘leave mommy alone and give her some chill time’ side of things. We didn’t spend a ton of time together as a family.

But we did have a great breakfast and dinner and you got some nice gifts. And our boys and our daughter went out of their way much of the week to give you sweet things and wish you Happy Mother’s Day and give you sweet little ‘We Love Mommy because…’ booklets.

Just a reminder where it all started…

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5/9/15 – Day 468: Probably More Like Mother’s Day

This was probably more like Mother’s Day:

  • Sam’s baseball game.
  • Brunch at Cuzi with my parents
  • Playground time at our new pool
  • Roswell Arts Festival
  • Chocolate chip cookies somewhere in there.

It was one of those nice, fun, outdoorsy, sweaty, but sweet Saturdays.



Happy Day Before Mother's Day!

Happy Day Before Mother’s Day!

4/29/15 – Day 458: Hammock Beach – Day 3, Pool Day!

We finally had some time by the pool. And by the look on my face, you can tell that I’m a happy camper!

Fruity drinks, chicken tenders, hot tub time, pool time, reading time, and just hanging out.

It was a blast and what we were both looking forward too.

So glad we’re doing this (as you can see by my goofy grin)!

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4/27/15 – Day 456: Hammock Beach, Day 1!!!

We did some shopping and some pool – laying out. And some beach walking.

The weather wasn’t perfect but it was a wonderfully relaxing first day at Hammock Beach.

And we had pizza at some random pizza place in Bunnell, FL. And I got 13,300 steps in.

It was a sweet, active yet chill day. If only we could figure out the ice thing. 🙂

I love you and am loving spending 5 days alone with you for our pre-anniversary trip!

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