Perhaps this doesn’t sound like a reason why I love you or even an indication of marital health.
But I kind of like our rhythm on Mondays: We eat together, get the kids asleep, and then you check out a show that you like on one screen while I check out a show I like on another screen.
Of course, we’re both being productive (I was logging our spending: you were folding clothes). We’re always productive. We normally spend this time together, but we both know that sometimes our tastes in shows aren’t exactly the same. We can work with that. It’s nice to honor the differences every once in a while.